Starting school is a big and exciting step for every child and their family. At our school, we understand that every child develops at their own pace, and children will arrive in Reception with a wide range of different experiences, strengths and needs.

School readiness is not about being able to read, write or count before starting school. It is about helping children develop the confidence, independence and social skills they need to enjoy school and become successful learners.

What does school readiness look like?

There are lots of simple things that children can practise at home to help them feel confident and ready for Reception.

Independence

Encourage your child to have a go at things for themselves, such as:

• Putting on and taking off their coat and attempting to fasten it
• Putting on their shoes and socks
• Using the toilet independently and washing their hands
• Eating and drinking independently
• Opening lunch boxes, packets and food containers
• Tidying away toys and belongings
• Carrying their own bag

It is perfectly okay if these things aren't mastered yet. Encouraging children to have a go is what matters.

Communication and language

Talking together is one of the most valuable things you can do to prepare your child for school.

Try to:

• Talk about your day and ask your child questions
• Encourage them to explain their ideas and feelings
• Introduce and discuss new words
• Sing nursery rhymes and songs together
• Read stories every day
• Encourage your child to listen carefully and follow simple instructions

Don't worry if your child doesn't know lots of letters or numbers yet. A strong foundation of communication and language will support all areas of their learning.

Social skills

Children benefit from opportunities to play and interact with others. Encourage your child to:

• Take turns and share
• Listen to others
• Join in with games
• Make friends
• Ask for help when they need it
• Talk about their feelings
• Begin to manage small disagreements with support

Learning and curiosity

We want children to come to school with a love of learning and a curiosity about the world around them.

You can encourage this by:

• Playing together
• Exploring outdoors
• Baking and cooking
• Drawing, painting and creating
• Completing simple puzzles
• Counting everyday objects
• Talking about what your child can see, hear and feel
• Letting them ask questions and investigate their surroundings

Learning doesn't have to look like school work. Everyday experiences provide wonderful opportunities for children to learn.

Confidence and wellbeing

Starting school can feel exciting, but it can also feel a little daunting. Talk positively about school and help your child understand what to expect.

Encourage your child to:

• Talk about their feelings
• Say goodbye to familiar adults
• Try new things
• Ask for help
• Have a go, even when something feels difficult
• Celebrate their own achievements

Most importantly…

There is no such thing as a “perfect” school-ready child.

Every child is unique, and we will meet them where they are. Our EYFS team will work closely with families to help every child settle, develop their independence and build the skills they need to thrive.

So, before your child starts school, don't feel pressured to teach them everything. Read together, talk together, play together, encourage independence and enjoy spending time together.

We can't wait to welcome your child into our Reception family!